Don't spend too much time questioning where you thought were going versus where you have been, but rather learn to cherish the adventures and friends you have made along the way.

We all want to take care of those around us, and sometimes in doing so we forget to take care of ourselves or ask for help.  There is a reason the flight attendants tell you to put on your own oxygen mask first before helping others.

Our community has come along way since  I was a young, blossoming homosexual.  There were no cell phones with WiFi browsing.   Dial Up internet was an emerging technology as I was finishing high school.  The underwear section of the  JC Penney catalog was my highly-coveted treasure, and I had to use the old school card catalog to find books on queer lifestyle using the Dewey Decimal System.   Click here for a list of many LGBTQIA resources now available.

Travel for me is like oxygen, it is something I absolutely cannot live without and has made me the person I am today.  Get out there, see the world, and lt will absolutely open your eyes.   When you look at the world from 30,000 feet, it gives you  a brand new perspective on how we are all fellow travelers coexisting on our beautiful Earth.  

Grrrr!  Whether it is along the Spanish coast in Sitges, under the Boatslip deck in Provincetown, or off of a dark mysterious alley in San Francisco, Carrie Bearshaw does know where to find the juiciest spots with the sweetest honey!   

Got a burning question on why you can't drink grapefruit juice with a particular medicine, or do you just have a burning sensation when you urinate?  Bearshaw Health offers a 24-hour nurse advice line  and so much more!

When the sun goes down and the scrubs come off, there is bound to be something posted online that will have someone in my feed clutching their pearls the next morning.  If you're not in the mood to wear a pearl necklace, I advise you not to click here.